I miss who I was before I knew you. Not all the alcohol I drank to be numb, but the sweet girl that was just looking to be loved; the girl that would do anything to give love. The beautiful, milky white girl that had a world of colors behind her eyes, her laugh, her words. Now I’m a broken, fragmented piece of myself, only I can’t find all the shards to place perfectly back into their packing order. I flinch at your touch, even at your words. I question everything that floats out of your mouth before it even tickles your vocal chords. When you hold me, I feel vacant in your arms; a spineless creature tucking me into themselves, feeding off of any love left loss inside myself. You fed off of everything I had in me; any confidence or love I had for myself, you threw it on the floor like the many pictures I used to have of us that I had to rid my entire life of just to drown out the hurt a glance at them will make me feel. I miss those pictures sometimes, but I know I am better off kept blind from any ounce of happiness you ever gave me; those moments were too few and too far between, anyways. You were always too busy blaming me for your own crippling damage inside your head and heart, too choked by the dark, dirty water to even come up for air to see what you had caused up on the surface. And any time you let yourself open your dormant eyes, you refused to believe that you were at fault and only sucked more life from me, telling me it had been my fault and that I wasn’t easy to love. How could someone love something so broken? You made sure I felt like no one ever could, so how could I leave when I mean nothing to no soul left on this world you created in front of me? How could I just walk out so easily, when I had already been staggering for miles to try and find your heart again? Did I ever even really see it, or was that all part of the plot as well? I never meant anything to you; don’t go crying over spilt milk when you’re lactose intolerant.
Does changing how you treated someone really make the difference for them to see you differently?
Do you think it really makes them able to see your change?
How does that make you become the victim, because you made someone so unable to put their trust in you?
How does that make you the good one, when you are the reason anything is even like this at all?
Changing your habits doesn’t erase emotional abuse; How do you think that you are good, just because you claim it now?
You claimed that the whole time, until your guilt decided to turn on you and break you down; Why did it always take so long?
At least when I screwed up, I knew it; I came right to you. Why could you never do the same?
Maybe if you hadn’t lied right to my face so many times, when all I wanted was the truth, I would be able to fall into any comfort you may hold. But how do I know that you won’t pull everything out from under me, in an instant, like you have so many times?
You are not the good one, just because you claim change.
Someone good wouldn’t break someone down how you did, and still expect compensation.
You expect me to just respond well to you now.
Every time that I ever let myself get comfortable, you left the next instant.
And that is why we are where we are. That is why you are terrifying, just being yourself.
I felt you press against me. Hard. You were hard. You pushed into me, made sure I knew. Cackled under your breath, “snowflake.”
I wanted to scream. I did.
I woke up, thankful it was just a dream. Thankful you will never have that part of me, no matter how close you came.
If you had taken that part of me, too…. I guess it would be another joke you made me into. And I don’t need that.
I don’t need your restless voice, or your teasing taunts. I don’t need your pushed messages, “bree,” every time I don’t respond for what you decide is too long. I don’t need your empty, broken promise of any amount of caring; all that does is make me hate you more.
I don’t need you. I don’t need you at all.
I never will again.
Don’t call, don’t text. Don’t fret about me.
Don’t reach out at all, that is the only way you can make me happy;
Leave me be.
You said to hold on tight
But I already knew from experience
That the tighter I hold onto you,
The faster you squirm away from me
You leave the love you once craved and begged for
You don’t like being held onto….
You drove us to your house, almost always dark out by the time you got to me. Joking with me the entire drive, just always poking fun at me. Sometimes, literally poking me or fucking up my bangs because it pissed me off.
Sometimes we hung around in the backyard, just talking about nonsense. Smoking by the pool that was always covered when I saw it.
It probably would have been better kept that way, outside by the pool.
Most of the time, we climbed up to the attic that had become your bedroom. Maybe we sat on that little “couch,” and watched Archer. You spoke to your Xbox like it was somehow impressive to me that you used the voice commands. I giggled at you every time.
But, more than we were on that little couch, we were on your bed.
You would get us high, and make fun of me for laughing so much. Laugh at me for laughing.
Always smirking in the darkness at me.
Was something funny?
And maybe I would do it sometimes, just try to tickle you or something. Hug you, mess up your hair.
But you loved it. You loved responding.
You would grab me into a tight hug, bite my neck hard, and make sure I couldn’t move out of that, saying, “nope nope nope,” or something else that was playful.
But I let you, I liked being bitten. I liked that kind of play, encouraged it.
You indulged yourself, nuzzling into my hair and randomly stroking it. Randomly calling me sunshine or snowflake. Those were your names for me.
You would throw your phone onto the floor when she would call, or if she was texting too much— I guess you didn’t want me to see?
I thought she missed you.
I thought you were broken, just like me.